Courtesy…wanted?
A stranger asked me today if I'm always kind? I replied with the relevant one
kindness that the other person needs towards him and it is something that I also expect from him
the others.
This question put me in a dilemma. What a strange phenomenon politeness has become
even to a stranger. But I entered into a deeper thought. So what?
characterizes the time we live in for someone to ask you if you are always kind;
Have we lost the values and principles we grew up with? Kindness costs nothing.
You give the necessary respect to your interlocutor and of course you expect him to respond
the same. You generously give him joy and a smile, seeking to reciprocate
courtesy fee. What will you gain by answering curtly and badly? Nothing
absolutely.
Isn't that how you put your limits on his answer? Yes! I will answer to you. So
you don't let your interlocutor become insulting towards you. The dialogue will
continue within frameworks that will meet the standards of respect.
If the situation in his behavior deviates again, it will be the reason for him
isolates and shut down the conversation by emphasizing that his behavior is
unacceptable. Cut ties with people who are not noble. Maybe so
correct this rudeness that has overwhelmed our society.
School education is about the person who owns it. Social education
affects those around him... it's not a matter of degree but of character and behavior.
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